If you're in a relationship and your significant other needs to travel far far away, then let them go.
Let them travel, let them explore, discover, and figure out all the best things the world can offer. Let them get lost and find themselves. Being able to travel and see the world really is a blessing and I'm sure you would want your significant other to experience that.
However, many things can happen during the period of time the two of you are separated by the long distance. People always change, feelings change, perspectives change. And it's okay. This change can occur to you, your significant other, or to the both of you at the same time. Therefore, I highly suggest to break up before you let go of the person that you love. Just simply, take a break . It should be a mutual decision as both of you need to be on the same level of understanding as in why this whole thing needs to happen.
Taking a break in a relationship will greatly minimize the pain in case the changes occur.
During this period of separation, each of you will learn more about yourself in the relationship; things that you never realize before or things that you normally take for granted.
During this period, each of you will realize whether or not you are for each other. However, it is also possible that each of you might not come to the same conclusion. But what matters is that both of you has the answer already.
This will only bring good to the relationship. Either you guys are gonna continue the relationship stronger than ever, or you both waste no time and end the pointless relationship. Either way, it will lead each of you to the right path.
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